A long time ago, when I was 12-I had the audacity to say "eff You" to my Mom. I got one hell of a swat from a metal spatula she was using upside the back of my head. There was blood & peanut butter everywhere!
Trust me. Kids aren't innocent. That notion gets shattered pretty quickly in a multi-player game lobby where 11 year olds will talk about how they did your mom last night lel